The only option when empty words rattle

Today I am making an effort to write, because I have no other way of expression...........so I feel like expressing my thoughts on situation which is a part of  everyones life, but we are far too busy to acknowledge it.


1. The thing/person you try to forget the most ; you shall never be able to it. So stop making efforts.
2. People say, the best things in life take their own time to happen; but the reality is every happening is best, our perceptions are wrong.
3. The control button of our lives is in the hands of other people, we all know, we never make an effort to take that control in our hands. God know's what is stopping us.
4. These we fall in love after looking at bank balance, the cars driven, the brand of clothes worn etc etc and we fall out of live the minute any of the above things falls below standards. We are in mad race to impress upon the  neighbors and relatives, we never think about our happiness.
5. Marriages are contracts between not two people, but between two bank accounts ( let's see whose account gets fatter, faster)
* Also the marriages are about " physical relations" the concept of being each others sole mate is rubbished.
(- what sole mates, yeh kya hota hai. LOG kehte hain    "khaoo, piyo aur aish karo".) 
6. We persue professions which are considered good by the society irrespective of an individuals capability, caliber and liking. ( You are not born to like anything; you will have to like what the society likes. how dare you have your own choice?)




I often wonder about myself being a part of this world; and then I resort to a very funny thing; I Calculate my age; the number of years I have lived and then I smile to myself, my aim will be fulfilled in another 5 years, so I don't wish to live beyond those years.


But this is life, the more you run away from it, the  more it has in warehouse to offer, some times there is Excess buffer, you have to finish all of it.

" COUNTING THE DAYS" 

Destiny or Hard work: Destiny Rules

Destiny or Hard work: Destiny Rules!!!!!!!!!!!: "I have often heard people talk about working hard and still not getting the required results, and I have also heard people talk about their ..."

Destiny or Hard work: The hearts desire

Destiny or Hard work: The hearts desire: "If I was writing using a pen and paper, I would have started writing by saying 'Once again I pick up a paper to pen down my hearts desire'. ..."

Destiny or Hard work: Give it a thought.

Destiny or Hard work: Give it a thought.: "FAILURE IS AN EDITORIAL JUDGEMENT, IMPOSED BY OTHERS. EITHER YOU HAVE CONTROL OR YOU DON'T. IF YOU DO, TAKE CONTROL; IF YOU DON'T, DON'T ..."

Give it a thought.

FAILURE IS AN EDITORIAL JUDGEMENT, IMPOSED BY OTHERS.



EITHER YOU HAVE CONTROL OR YOU DON'T. IF YOU DO, TAKE CONTROL; IF YOU DON'T, DON'T WASTE YOUR ENERGY ON WORRY.

YOU CAN NEVER PLEASE EVERYONE; INFACT  IF YOU PLEASE 50% OF THE PEOPLE, YOU ARE DOING QUIET WELL.

The hearts desire

If I was writing using a pen and paper, I would have started writing by saying "Once again I pick up a paper to pen down my hearts desire". What is this hearts desire? When does it arise? why ? What can be done about it?

The heart has its own reasons which the  mind does not understand, but God has his own ways which the heart does not understand.Why is it, that we desire for something and sometimes end up receiving completely contrary result? Why the heart desires which the others perceive as "OBJECTIONABLE"?
The heart and the mind (brain) always function in the opposite directions, which one should we follow?
Which one is more trustworthy?
You see, so many questions and may be no answers, they are those questions which each one of us have faced so many times in our lives and when we found no answers to them, we said "Let go".
No we cannot let go, so easily. It is time to find out why the hearts desire is usually considered, not so appropriate.
My heart fell in love with some one, is it wrong to fall in love?Or the person was wrong?

My heart felt like persuing a profession,which people feel is "low self esteem", is it wrong to choose a profession which is your passion or is my selection not according to the standards of society?
 My heart feels like doing something for the  poor people, working for them but people say " ISME Paisa NAHI HAI" so is my hearts desire wrong or the idea of social work is ill conceived?

The heart is duty bound to beat till the last breath, it will not stop pounding against  the walls of the circulatory system, so I will say follow the heart, because it is not double minded like the two sides of the brain. It does not confuse you, it only tells you to do, what it wants you to do, so go for it, go for the love of your life, go for the passion of your life and most importantly , GO FOR LIFE, we just have one.

And this reminds me of the words of MARK TWAIN
" Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and NEVER regret anything that made you smile".

Destiny Rules

I have often heard people talk about working hard and still not getting the required results, and I have also heard people talk about their good fortune, which bestows everything on them, while they sit back and relax.
What does this mean? You should stop working hard and leave everything to happen at its own pace and time.


Even I don't have a precise answer to my own question, but what life has taught me in last 15 years is "You shall get the fruits of your hardwork, only if the sphere you worked hard in; was meant for you" which brings us to a point that we must work hard in the area, where we have interests, and precisely they are meant for us, because in such a case, you don't work hard, you work smart and you work well and accordingly reap the results of the effort.


Thus it is not about hard work anymore, it is time to work smart and work to please yourself, for your satisfaction and not for the happiness of either your relatives or neighbours.
I came across a saying a couple of weeks ago "where there is a will, there are 500 relatives" so today the task ahead of youth is not to clear an entrance test, but to able to cross the hurdles and walls created by the so called loving and caring relatives. Beware!!!!!!!! is what I tell you.
And on a serious note,  I wish you all the luck with your destiny because whatever is written cannot be re-written, so go by your instincts and follow your heart, Its one life, live it the way you want.