It is in the face of tragedy, that one also learns, lifelong wisdom. 

In conversation with God

We all have bad days and we must have them, because " bad days make way for better days", But today I wanted to question God and ask why am I chosen for the wrongs at the receiving end and after a loud monologue, coupled with tears. The silence of my mind brings the following answer to me:My child! Don't doubt my plan for you, learn to trust in me, in all things; The good and the bad. I have lived enough life to believe and trust that there is a divine power that takes good care of us, however there are weak moments, we all go through. In these weak moments, tell yourself the following, "These are not my thoughts and I dissolve them with love".After all, love is the cure.

History sans war

" Destiny will always play its card when humans feel they have captured it".

Mankind has played havoc with nature, but today when nature retaliated there was nothing that man could do about it.

What happened in Japan was natures fury; the destruction whose loss is not measurable, the lives which have been lost cannot be counted and  even worse is situation of the people who are alive to witness the loss of their near and dear ones.

I am reminded of a few lines of a poem by "Rudyard kipling", If 

"If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster

And treat those two impostors just the same;

Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,

And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools". 

A few seconds of destruction and a life time to reconstruct, after the American attack on Hiroshima and Nagasaki, 11th march 2011; was  the day which made history sans war.

I hope and pray the people (survivors) have the courage and the strength to be brave this battle of nature and pick up their tools to begin reconstruction from the beginning. This loss could have happened in part of the world, so we as responsible citizens must come together with compassion and help our fellow countrymen to "begin from the beginning" and a message for all others "count your blessings". 

Destiny or Hard work: Always thank God!!!!

Destiny or Hard work: Always thank God!!!!: "We all know that the temperature is falling and each day without the sunlight is just too boring, but we are humans and we always learn..."

Always thank God!!!!

We all know that the temperature is falling and each day without the sunlight is just too boring, but we are humans and we always learnt to adjust,  and  to our surprise we do a good job.
Today while I was on my way home, in my cozy and comfortable car with the heat on, waiting for the green signal, I see a middle aged man on a bi-cycle clad in a big shawl and trying to protect himself from the cruel winter winds, which would show no mercy at all. At that very moment I thanked god for blessing me with all the major and minor luxuries of life and from protecting me from the wrath of nature, there must be some good deeds done by me that I was not in his place and in the place of so many millions who would not even know what "heater"means and what function it performs.

We as human beings always crib about things which we don't have, we never think for a second for all those comforts we have, we always want to live life in absolute terms but the rule of living a happy life is "relative".
Its a beautiful saying in Hindi " Kisi ko muqumal jahaan nahi milta, kissi ki zameen to kissi ko asmaan nahi milta"
so why should we get everything in life, we must learn to live happily in whatever we have, thats the true meaning of life, but by the time this message is read and understood by others it would be too late.
 

The only option when empty words rattle

Today I am making an effort to write, because I have no other way of expression...........so I feel like expressing my thoughts on situation which is a part of  everyones life, but we are far too busy to acknowledge it.


1. The thing/person you try to forget the most ; you shall never be able to it. So stop making efforts.
2. People say, the best things in life take their own time to happen; but the reality is every happening is best, our perceptions are wrong.
3. The control button of our lives is in the hands of other people, we all know, we never make an effort to take that control in our hands. God know's what is stopping us.
4. These we fall in love after looking at bank balance, the cars driven, the brand of clothes worn etc etc and we fall out of live the minute any of the above things falls below standards. We are in mad race to impress upon the  neighbors and relatives, we never think about our happiness.
5. Marriages are contracts between not two people, but between two bank accounts ( let's see whose account gets fatter, faster)
* Also the marriages are about " physical relations" the concept of being each others sole mate is rubbished.
(- what sole mates, yeh kya hota hai. LOG kehte hain    "khaoo, piyo aur aish karo".) 
6. We persue professions which are considered good by the society irrespective of an individuals capability, caliber and liking. ( You are not born to like anything; you will have to like what the society likes. how dare you have your own choice?)




I often wonder about myself being a part of this world; and then I resort to a very funny thing; I Calculate my age; the number of years I have lived and then I smile to myself, my aim will be fulfilled in another 5 years, so I don't wish to live beyond those years.


But this is life, the more you run away from it, the  more it has in warehouse to offer, some times there is Excess buffer, you have to finish all of it.

" COUNTING THE DAYS" 

Destiny or Hard work: Destiny Rules

Destiny or Hard work: Destiny Rules!!!!!!!!!!!: "I have often heard people talk about working hard and still not getting the required results, and I have also heard people talk about their ..."